In Summary
- Parents to the 22 year old man failed to recognize their son’s choice in the 42 year old woman.
- The parents believe the young man is being exploited.
- Recently, the woman’s previous lover warned the 22 year old man to stay away from his wife.
A 22 year old man and his 42 year old girlfriend recently got chased away by the man’s parents.
The young man had taken his elderly girlfriend to his parents for approval.
Despite the man’s mother declining to speak, her relatives did.
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According to the man’s parents, the young man was being exploited by the woman who’s older than the man’s mother.
“Ati umetuambia this is your half really? ulisema huyu rafiki yako for now mi naweza muita rafiki yako coz ata familia enyewe hatuwezi kubali, your mom is 40 years this lady is 42 years how ata we mwenyewe hujafikisha miaka nusu yake na unatuambia huyu ni mpenzi wako are you sure ama ni pesa imekuelekeza kwa huyu mama sababu sioni mapenzi hapo, hapo hakuna mapenzi ata kidogo kuna mwenye anatumia mwingine na nikiangalia sana kijana wangu we ndio unatumiwa kwa sababu huyu ni mama ameona mengi, ametembea kwingi and you you’re just 22 years so mumeachana na 20 years, amekuacha na 20 years so hapo Promise sioni ka inawezekana” stated a family representative.
Hit Menopause
The young man was further taken to task over the woman’s inability to sire children after hitting menopause.
He was challenged to take a step back and source for a younger and beautiful woman.
“Wasichana ni wengi sana kwanza nowadays wasichana ni warembo tena zaidi na unataka kuniambia ata kama kabisa kabisa huyu mpenzi wako unasema ni mpenzi wako ata akikuoa juu si wewe utamuoa ye ndio atakuoa are you sure iko siku atawahi kukuzalia mtoto ebu niangalie kwa macho mzuri unataka kuniambia iko siku atakuzalia mtoto ama you’re just wasting your time” she continued.
The family further added that after investing in the young man’s education all he had was to bring them shame.
They were baffled how the 42 year old willingly agreed to come to the man’s parents for validation.
“Hii ni aibu umetuletea yenye ata haiwezi eleweka ehh na unamshika are you sure really hivo ndivyo umekuja kutuonyesha, Promise at your age of 22 na 42 ata afadhali ungekuja kwangu nikutaftie msichana mdogo uoe kuliko huyu mama, huyu mama ni mzee na unamwita mpenzi infact umetuangusha, apo umetuangusha kabisa” she added.
The 22 year old ended up being warned to forget about his family should he settle with the elderly woman.
Recently, the woman’s previous lover warned the 22 year old man to leave his wife alone.
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