Just a few days after Akothee’s sister Cebbie claimed that they are okay despite the expose on Edgar Obare, Akothee has responded.
In a post shared on Instagram, Akothee has revealed that their relationship is still strained following the leaked screenshots.
In a lengthy post on Instagram, Akothee lectured Netizens on how to treat siblings adding that there is no such thing as sibling rivalry. According to Akothee, sibling rivalry is a cover for jealousy.
“Treat them the same way you would treat your own mother, there is nothing like sibling rivalry, it’s a cover up for jealousy, never try to compete with someone who is older than you. They are still your seniors? I wish I had an older sister that could cuddle me and tell me all will be okey , one that would help me sort out my bills when things are thick, one that my children can visit and I feel well , my own kids are good in my mom’s hands ??.” She said
Akothee added that one should not always expect their big sister to forgive them every time they are disrespectful.
She added that families need to create boundaries in order to avoid such disrespectful slurs.
“But if your sisters does motherly things to you ,and you keep hurting her , and expect her to always forgive and take you back as usual ? I am sorry ,time changes and people grow up ? once you grow up ,please pick up yourself and start taking care of your sister the same way you would take care of your own mother when they are old and when they need you ? you can’t just be a taker always ,givers also get tired ?. Give back a hand to those who saw you grow . If your elderly sister saw you through education and now you are working , please ,, shop for her if not every month ,then at least 2 times a year ? surprise her even if she is rich or stable ,buy her small things like ,Dera,lesos ,cloths ( by the way ,rich people appreciate gifts ,not because they can’t buy ,but simply because , someone has thought about them )
?If your elder sibling goes broke because of educating all of you , then it’s your time to build them , imagine if she / he became greedy and build herself with all the money she invested in the family ,to just invest in her/ himself ?? Some of you might not be where you are today ( so please think and be human )
?There is only amount of pain sisters / siblings can bring for you ,and they keep treating it as it’s normal?,
Remember this is not someone who gave birth to you, they might turn their back forever ,it’s human ?
?If you keep allowing people to hurt you and come back in the name of family , I am sorry ,you keep hurting yourself. FAMILIES MUST CREAT BOUNDARIES AND IF THEY CAN’T THEN YOU HAVE TO CREAT ONE & LOVE THEM FROM FAR. GIVERS SHOULD BE CAREFUL BECAUSE TAKERS HAVE NO BOUNDARIES NOR SHAME “she concluded
Her response comes days after her sister Cebbie became the topic of conversation following leaked screenshots of her saying her sister (Akothee) lives a fake lifestyle